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Title: Real life experiences: approaching and conversing with hot women.
Post by: TKXII on March 15, 2013, 07:12:06 pm
Introduction
In modern developed nations, men are losing their testicles at a rapid rate. With the advent of internet dating, men are also hiding behind their insecurities. We must rise above this bullshit and set an example that stands for the remainder of human existence. We must reform ourselves and build ourselves up to be indestructible fearless machines capable of anything, capable of turning any thought into a reality. Through these actions, the men we inspire will regain testicular volume, and the epidemic of lowered testosterone will end once and for all and we will have world peace.

Purpose
To learn from mistakes, to learn from successes, and become glorious.
Improve mental stability, sociability, easygoingness, insecurity, fear, interpersonal relations, and cultivate emotional intelligence.

Methods

Additional information:
Post one story per interaction. Format is up to you, you are the narrators. If something else pops up I'll add it here later.
Title: Re: Real life experiences: approaching and conversing with hot women.
Post by: entropy on March 16, 2013, 02:27:15 am
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3v-eEid40TU

Ive meant to say this for a while but Avishek is this you?
Title: Re: Real life experiences: approaching and conversing with hot women.
Post by: Ryno2892 on March 16, 2013, 07:44:20 am
The last number pick up (about 2 weeks ago, I don't go out much lol)

Was having lunch with two mates at this super chill organic cafe just down the road from uni.

Filipino chick comes in with her dog, late 20's,  fit body, tanned, ok face, typical beach/hippie type chick with heaps of bracelets, anklets, beads ect...

Not that I was really concerned with, but I detected the IOI's (proximity-she came and sat at the table right next to us, gazing ect).

As we where talking (about training  :headbang: one of my mates sees some friends of his enter the cafe from the other side, and excuses us to go catch up with them.

So this chick has been glancing at us and mirin the whole time (about 5 minutes while we where talking and she was waiting there with her dog). As some conversational gaps started coming up between my mate and I, I decided to drop her line. Just as I was about to ask about her dog (which turned out was a kelpie) she asked me some thing like 'am I one of those fitness guys' ....

After about 5 minutes of chatting about fitness, eating well ect ect (we actually had a lot to talk about, conversation was easy with her), sussing out her persona (very upbeat, confident, open, makes conversation easy) I thought I'd try escalate just for fun to see where I could get.... Got closer and started playing with the dog a bit as a medium, went in to kino by asking about her jewelry and feeling around, getting her to story tell about each piece (she got bangles from bali I recall), then upped the eye contact and name dropping (moira), started slowing down my pace, got closer to test her compliance, and she wasn't showing any signs of disinterest/alarm.

All the while my mate was sitting there saying barely anything, would have been awkward for him, he was on the other side of the table......

So after about 10 minutes in total, I decided to grab the number and lead on by saying how great it would be if we went down for a surf and stuff..... my other mate got back, her friend she was waiting for arrived (rank minger, 5/10) and we did our own thing.... said goodbye and left.

I texted her a bit, just small talk, I cbf organizing anything as I'm generally busy and cbf with dates these days unless she's something I feel is 'worth it'......

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Yeah I don't really do this stuff with intent that often anymore (giving 100% focus) unless I'm introduced to a super rare hot babe, or someone that ticks all the boxes (someone I am interested in a long term relationship with), or in cases where it progresses (you have classes with a chick, have time to build up rapport over a few days/weeks ect, or they are in the same social circle so you see them often).......... I'm just trying to focus on other areas of my life more so at the moment (excelling at uni, working my career pathways)

Buuut I gotta start being more relaxed and just number closing/gaming for the hell of it, with just about any chick I interact with, I been so focused on uni/work these days I barely give women attention unless I know I can get an easy root. Would probably make me less stressed these days too....
Title: Re: Real life experiences: approaching and conversing with hot women.
Post by: Ryno2892 on March 17, 2013, 02:16:29 am
Yeah it all comes down to how you interpret the situation, and how you walk away from it, good or bad.

I have a lot of mates who when get turned down, it's a massive blow to their ego. Instead of approaching it logically and considering that maybe she was having a bad day, she may have just had a break up, heck, maybe even her mum or a close relative could have died recently, there's plenty of reasons a girl may not be in a sociable mood and receptive towards a stranger opening them and engrossing in conversation and flirting.

Then there are many girls who are just typically shy and introverted, and not used to getting approached in that manner, so they may not know how to react to keep the situation comfortable.

You have no idea what she's thinking or whats going on in her life, so it's not your fault.

Then again you do get a small percentile who purposefully are bitches (for whatever reasons, parental problems, abuse ect), but their not the type of people you should be looking to involve in your life anyway.

It can also go both ways, I've had a lot of girls open to me and show lots of interest (randoms and through social venues) and I'm usually busy thinking about something else like training, work, assignments that are due ect ect


In my opinion, paradoxically, cold approaching is the hardest and easiest way to meet girls (in terms of establishing a connection and attaining approval it's hard, but doing it is as simple as going to the shops). Considering most people meet partners through friends and through friends of friends, or they are hooked up. It makes it a lot easier, as you don't have to worry about being socially correct, and also your on an even playing field, she'll be more comfortable as your not a total stranger, neither a risk because you have the group/friends validation.

This is only something I realized as I got older and matured.
Title: Re: Real life experiences: approaching and conversing with hot women.
Post by: LBSS on March 25, 2013, 10:21:03 pm
TLDR, introduction is bullshit.
Title: Re: Real life experiences: approaching and conversing with hot women.
Post by: Raptor on March 26, 2013, 08:17:33 am
TLDR, introduction is bullshit.

Introduction? In where?
Title: Re: Real life experiences: approaching and conversing with hot women.
Post by: LBSS on March 26, 2013, 09:36:32 am
TLDR, introduction is bullshit.

Introduction? In where?

Introduction
In modern developed nations, men are losing their testicles at a rapid rate. With the advent of internet dating, men are also hiding behind their insecurities. We must rise above this bullshit and set an example that stands for the remainder of human existence. We must reform ourselves and build ourselves up to be indestructible fearless machines capable of anything, capable of turning any thought into a reality. Through these actions, the men we inspire will regain testicular volume, and the epidemic of lowered testosterone will end once and for all and we will have world peace.

Title: Re: Real life experiences: approaching and conversing with hot women.
Post by: Raptor on March 26, 2013, 09:39:59 am
I meant - introduction of "what" in "where"?

Nevermind, one of my "Raptor jokes" :D
Title: Re: Real life experiences: approaching and conversing with hot women.
Post by: Ryno2892 on March 26, 2013, 11:44:35 am
I meant - introduction of "what" in "where"?

Nevermind, one of my "Raptor jokes" :D

Terrible, terrible call.
Title: Re: Real life experiences: approaching and conversing with hot women.
Post by: adarqui on March 27, 2013, 12:59:00 am
i have girls smile and say hi to me all of the time, i say hi back and nod/smile but never pursue it. too busy. must code+unix, no distractions.

that's my story.
Title: Re: Real life experiences: approaching and conversing with hot women.
Post by: Raptor on March 27, 2013, 01:01:01 am
i have girls smile and say hi to me all of the time, i say hi back and nod/smile but never pursue it. too busy. must code+unix, no distractions.

that's my story.


I love this^^^
Title: Re: Real life experiences: approaching and conversing with hot women.
Post by: LBSS on March 27, 2013, 03:37:11 pm
i have girls smile and say hi to me all of the time, i say hi back and nod/smile but never pursue it. too busy. must code+unix, no distractions.

that's my story.

(http://www.randomfunnypicture.com/pictures/1133Gtfo_Bitch.jpg)
Title: Re: Real life experiences: approaching and conversing with hot women.
Post by: Ryno2892 on May 10, 2013, 05:44:40 am
might as well update this.

I stopped talking to new girls a few weeks ago because I met a few I like and don't want to get distracted anymore. After the semester gets out things will get more interesting but right now I'm focusing entirely on school and don't care about girls anymore, partly because I only like approaching women I feel very attracted to, and that's very very few. I've learned what my type is a bit more and really am not going to waste time talking to women randomly if I don't really think I'll be attracted to them.

This.Exactly.

She def doesn't have time for this stuff. I don't either who am I kidding. She's super popular and has like dozens and dozens of likes on her facebook profile photos. Does anyone understand that shit? the most likes i've ever gotten is 16, and that was on a really nice professional looking photo. Outrageous.

I'm sorry but when guys say shit like this it really pisses me off. Their girls. It's facebook. What the fuck does a facebook like matter at all, in any sense, unless your operating on the basis of promotion purposes for a business/campaign? It makes me laugh that people still consider those sort of things to hold any value/significance.

Sorry for the condescension, but it never fails to frustrate me when either sex blows up irrelevant things like that..... I remember this girl I dated back in high school who admitted to me how self conscious she got over the fact that she didn't have her license at the time, and how she wasn't planning on going to uni, not that it mattered to me one bit because I liked her for who she was.

Just my opinion. Sorry for ranting, you where probably just putting it out there what you noticed, don't mean to come down on you like a cynical mofo...

Title: Re: Real life experiences: approaching and conversing with hot women.
Post by: Ryno2892 on May 12, 2013, 02:01:12 am

I'm sorry but when guys say shit like this it really pisses me off. Their girls. It's facebook. What the fuck does a facebook like matter at all, in any sense, unless your operating on the basis of promotion purposes for a business/campaign? It makes me laugh that people still consider those sort of things to hold any value/significance.

No problem. I'm a difficult person to understand and sometimes I do things or say things for humor, and this is one of them, sort of.

I completely understand your point, and a previous version of me a few years ago would also be laughing that I am now at a wiser older age concerned with facebook likes on profile photos, a meaningless distraction. I'm not interested in the likes because I'm self-conscious about myself in anyway and looking for affirmation, hell no. I am purely interested in the psychology behind it. My concern with this stems from my desire to experiment, that's all.
 
I would like to know WHY some people have an extraordinary amount of facebook likes, and others just don't. I think girls on average would have higher amount of facebook likes because their beauty is valued more or something, but I'm surprised when some men receive so many likes and others don't on profile pics. I don't know if it's because they are more popular (most likely), good looking, or more accepted by society (goes hand and hand with popular).

I would go on but I know nobody is as fascinated in this phenomenon as I am.

No, no, I love social psychology and group theory ect, lets discuss!

I didn't mean you where self conscious about it, sorry if it came off in that manner, I wrote that first reply at the end of a long day I must have been in a shitty mood lol. It's just that I've noticed that trend a lot and it gets on my nerves because society in general is concerned with such superfluous and shallow things and it's dumbed us down, and also become an obstacle in consolidating our relationships with one another as humans on a deeper level. I believe this sociocultural juxtaposition of western society is a by product of commercialism, the mass media and corporatism. 

Females in general, especially the physically attractive ones, are placed on a pedestal and prized. Physical appeal is a signifier of virility, as well as artistically pertinent (modelling, the arts ect) Is it vanity? or does it have deeper roots in evolutionary psychology? It's open for interpretation.
I'd say this goes both ways, however males have a greater inclination to be leaders, protectors, financially secure ect i.e the head of the family, the provider. Although in the 21st century gender roles have not been so uniform with concurrent changes in academic and corporate sectors, equality and a whole bunch of other factors. Whether we choose to accept this or not, I believe it occurs at a conscious and subconscous level when we are contemplating someone as a partner.

More commonly though, a lot of young people seek attention and validation. The concept of popularity in high school is a mere minutia representative of the social ladder. Guys when their younger also tend to basically follow their dick, not their head or their hearts, e.g 'if I like her fb pic, its only a matter of time before I get in her pantz broooo' 1+1=5  :motherofgod:

Or maybe where just thinking too much, being the strength geeks that we are, and haven't considered that some people just have more friends on facebook, use it more as a networking tool than others, and thus get more receptivity, and happen to have a larger social circle. I've met a lot of people who have been massive catalysts in my life, extremely genuine, honest, successful and powerful people in real life, and their facebook is far from a decent portrait of their true selves and their values, how they carry themselves ect. On the other hand, I notice so many people who give off a false representation of themselves and their character and lifestyle via facebook, and are louse human beings when you meet them face to face and get to know them. I think it's partly egotistical, but at the same time how we carry ourselves is important because we don't know how other people may be perceiving us (looking up to us ect).   

This video really helped me see things from another perspective(watch it from 3:40, and be patient. forget them crapping on about the other stuff)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dIhM9RTwLv8

Anyway dude, it's probably a good time to drop my blog now because this is the sort of stuff I discuss in detail haha. If you haven't already, please subscribe guys, I've re created the whole site template and lost all my wordpress followers. Hope you enjoy!

http://rynosrant.com/
Title: Re: Real life experiences: approaching and conversing with hot women.
Post by: Ryno2892 on May 17, 2013, 07:30:28 am
I agree with a lot of what you said, I definitely go with the flow of life and try not to let any certain ideology dictate my existence and opinions, however I try to follow my intuition and learn from it (experience, mistakes). That's just my opinion though, its not right or wrong.

Individual experience and disposition without a doubt shapes our perspectives and attitudes, as was in the case of the whole facebook likes topics. Thus they are subject to continual alteration, however, over time I believe values slowly establish, and need to be. You where coming from a place of curiosity, meanwhile my abrupt response was much in part due to past experiences, which predisposes me to having a low tolerance to people who mention things like that (I have a low tolerance to people in general lol), which I at first find, are ridiculous.       
 
About technology impairing our relationships, I think its a weak excuse and is exaggerated. It assists us to meet new people as you said, and helps us connect especially in long distance relationships and for networking purposes as highlighted.
I think the quandary is with the change in interpersonal dynamics, and older generations largely believe it reduces face to face talk, which some people hold in high regard to be sentimental and meaningful. Maybe it is the option technology has given us to manage our relationships (the convenience of sending a emoticon/smiley) in contrast to taking the time out to see someone in person. Many interpret this to be a paradigm shift synonymous with the fast paced nature of western society.

At the end of the day though, its all how you interpret it. Everyone is free to live by their own values, and so they should be.   




Title: Re: Real life experiences: approaching and conversing with hot women.
Post by: LBSS on May 20, 2013, 03:44:28 pm
no. angelina jolie's double mastectomy was well-informed and well-supported by research. her pride in her choice was an affirmation of her self-worth as a person independent of the thing that is most directly associated by our society with "womanhood". that someone like angelina jolie, whose fame can be attributed in no small part to her awesome breasts, would take pride in making an informed decision about her health despite the loss of that most externally womanly part of herself is empowering.

it's REALLY different from jenny mccarthy's anti-vaccination bullshit, or doctor oz's anything.
Title: Re: Real life experiences: approaching and conversing with hot women.
Post by: LBSS on May 21, 2013, 07:00:44 pm
frankly i know fuck-all about cancer so i won't continue down that road. my understanding is that her mutation gave her an exceptionally high risk of cancer that is eliminated or nearly eliminated by double mastectomy. she mentions in the piece that she'll deal with her ovaries at a later date: one thing at a time.

i don't think her wealth and ability to afford a world-class boob job deprives her of the ability to play an empowering role in the lives of less privileged women. that seems like a specious argument to me.

also you missed the point i was making about her breasts: sure her ovaries are her primary sex organs, but her breasts are the number one EXTERNAL, SOCIAL evidence of her womanhood. i imagine that to remove them, even if they're replaced with great substitutes, is a pretty traumatic thing, more so in some ways (i'd argue) than removal of an internal organ.

one of these days i'll get around to reading illness as metaphor.
Title: Re: Real life experiences: approaching and conversing with hot women.
Post by: Ryno2892 on May 22, 2013, 08:13:52 am
About her "empowerment," that's an opinion and cannot be argued as true or false. It's a pretty easy decision to get a double mascectomy + boob job when your doctor tells you your lifetime breast cancer risk is 85% and you can easily afford both.

Financially, yes, although as LBSS highlighted, it would carry some trauma knowing you've artificially replaced a part of your body, specifically, an area synonymous  with your sexuality and virility. It would have carried greater onus considering she is an A list celebrity, and knowing that 'part' of her did contribute to her success, although it cannot be measured objectively, I think its something she'd understand at a personal level intrinsically.

I understand the point your trying to make, logically it is an easy decision, however if you where in her position I doubt making that choice would so simple.   

I am arguing that her decision is not one that should be replicated by others. Her decision should not be applauded, unless those who applaud wish to maintain that her decision is the best decision and that other women with the same mutation should get double mastectomies.

Yes although you cannot hold her completely accountable for how others choose to interpret it. I doubt much women would act upon it ad verbatim, without taking into account professional opinion and seeking alternate avenues given their condition. If they do so, then undeniably the fault is with them. I'd like to believe that most people would research as you stated and make informed decisions.       

As a celebrity she is in a position of influence, however it is the society which ensures that influence, and thus it is their own responsibility to make choices regarding their health.

This is a touchy subject given the nature of the condition, so I won't elaborate further upon who's fault it is ect
Title: Re: Real life experiences: approaching and conversing with hot women.
Post by: Ryno2892 on June 03, 2013, 04:08:53 am
I was getting a cold drink with a client after our workout and neighbor gave it to me for free and was very friendly, unlike most white girls that are as cute as her. She's foreign I think that's why. But I won't get distracted.

LOL she just wants that BBC...

Good work with the other one, enjoy it
Title: Re: Real life experiences: approaching and conversing with hot women.
Post by: Ryno2892 on June 04, 2013, 01:12:27 pm
Lol wtf? I'm Indian. But yea I must be skeptical and that's probably right. There's a lot I don't know.

Yeah that came across the wrong way....but you know what I mean haha
Title: Re: Real life experiences: approaching and conversing with hot women.
Post by: LBSS on June 04, 2013, 05:20:08 pm
***SCENE***

it's about 10:30 PM. a group of people sits around a fire pit in the back yard of a house in dundalk, maryland. lbss parks his car down the block and walks over. it's hard to see faces because it's dark. a hot woman recognizes him and runs over to the fence around the yard.

Quote
hot woman: hey!
lbss: hey!
hot woman: how are you?
lbss: tired, also i think this gate is locked so i'm just gonna go around the front of the house
hot woman: oh yeah okay

as lbss walks to the front of the house, the hot woman runs through the house to meet him at the front door. she opens the door as lbss walks up the stairs.

Quote
hot woman: hey again
lbss: what's up

they kiss and walk into the house.

***SCENE***

what do you guys think? how was my game? if it helps, later that night we boned.

edit: corrected last line. i'd hate on raptor but i'm the grammar police, so touche. :lololol:
Title: Re: Real life experiences: approaching and conversing with hot women.
Post by: Raptor on June 04, 2013, 05:23:40 pm
Later than night? So in the morning since that is later?

Just kidding :P but wtf... wtf are you talking about, I don't get it
Title: Re: Real life experiences: approaching and conversing with hot women.
Post by: Raptor on June 09, 2013, 09:10:54 am
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Title: Re: Real life experiences: approaching and conversing with hot women.
Post by: Ryno2892 on June 10, 2013, 10:32:54 pm
***SCENE***

it's about 10:30 PM. a group of people sits around a fire pit in the back yard of a house in dundalk, maryland. lbss parks his car down the block and walks over. it's hard to see faces because it's dark. a hot woman recognizes him and runs over to the fence around the yard.

Quote
hot woman: hey!
lbss: hey!
hot woman: how are you?
lbss: tired, also i think this gate is locked so i'm just gonna go around the front of the house
hot woman: oh yeah okay

as lbss walks to the front of the house, the hot woman runs through the house to meet him at the front door. she opens the door as lbss walks up the stairs.

Quote
hot woman: hey again
lbss: what's up

they kiss and walk into the house.

***SCENE***

what do you guys think? how was my game? if it helps, later that night we boned.

edit: corrected last line. i'd hate on raptor but i'm the grammar police, so touche. :lololol:

I see what you did there......... I think?...... haha....... :)......