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Re: the EMO thread - when you have depressing weak things to say, say em here
« Reply #120 on: February 17, 2016, 03:58:58 pm »
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700 euros per month for a full-time job? isn't that like half romania's national per capita income? i.e. poverty wages? or is the job part-time?
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wednesday: fartlek (mostly easy pace with mix of strides, hills, long tempo) 45 mins (8+ km)
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Re: the EMO thread - when you have depressing weak things to say, say em here
« Reply #121 on: February 17, 2016, 04:08:59 pm »
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No, that's a big salary.

The minimum salary here is ~200 euros per month. 700 is "a lot". In this field though (IT, mobile development etc) it's about right. But they can get younger guys for much less and they can also abuse them :D

Some young guys that finish college now already demand 1000+ euros, with no experience, though.

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Few weeks ago I got dumped by a girl I'd been seeing for a few weeks because, no joke here: My life was perfect or close to it, and hers has been far from and I wouldn't be able to relate to her, and she wouldn't be accepted by my family down the road, and I haven't been in any serious relationships and I was just this young optimistic person who needed to go fall in love with someone and have lots of babies and live happily ever after.

WTF. Don't know if that's emo, or if I am for being put down by that. I'm in a vicious circle with relationships I swear. It's like the classic fresh out of college dilemma, need a job to get experience but need experience to get a job. Thought that could have gone really well too. Sheeeiiiiit.

Anyway, had to get that out of my system. Still trying to just get over it.

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educated guess: she's just not that into you and was trying to let you down in a nice if slightly awkward/immature way. whatever, there are many fish, and you're not going to match with most of them. i've had the "i'm too into you, you're too good for me" line used on me before, although it was in college. just meant that chick wasn't feeling it, and that's okay. her loss.

that said, getting dumped sucks. i feel you.
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- Avishek

sunday: long very easy run 80+ mins @ 5:40+ (14+ km)
monday: strength/cross training
tuesday: easy run 60+ mins @ 5:20-5:30 (11+ km)
wednesday: fartlek (mostly easy pace with mix of strides, hills, long tempo) 45 mins (8+ km)
thursday: easy run 60+ mins @ 5:20-5:30 (11+ km), strength/cross-training
friday: rest
saturday: short tempo 6-8x500 @ sub-4:00 (7 km)

strength would be:
- hops 2x10
- box jumps or ME SVJ 2x5
- squats 3x6-8 or weighted BSS/lunges 3x10/leg
- RDL/hypers 2x10-12 or SLRDL 2x10-12/leg
- upper push myo-reps or sets to technical failure
- upper pull myo-reps or sets to technical failure
- leg raises, holds, pallof presses

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That's totally fair, and that's kinda what I had assumed. She actually really has had it pretty rough in the past, but it's ridiculous to flip it back on me if she's just not interested when everyone I've ever been out with I've been up front with about just being honest.

Thanks for the empathy though. Actually helps. Oh well, more lifting motivation. Gonna just go back to focusing on lifting and getting my project car up here and presentable instead of trying to date for a while.

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That's what always happens: they fuck with other retards that either dump them or cheat on them, and when you come up with the best of intentions and want something serious, they dump all they accumulated with those fuckers on you, or they get scared when they realize you're actually serious and you're displaying that seriousness, whereas in the past they had to guess if the guys they've been with were serious.

"Oh he's more introverted (speaking about their former guys)"
"I wonder what he's thinking..."
"He doesn't seem that into me..."
"Oh fuck, he cheated on me!" (who saw that coming?)

And then they come in and dump that on your serious and completely positive intentions. Women are fucking idiots.

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That's what always happens: they fuck with other retards that either dump them or cheat on them, and when you come up with the best of intentions and want something serious, they dump all they accumulated with those fuckers on you, or they get scared when they realize you're actually serious and you're displaying that seriousness, whereas in the past they had to guess if the guys they've been with were serious.

"Oh he's more introverted (speaking about their former guys)"
"I wonder what he's thinking..."
"He doesn't seem that into me..."
"Oh fuck, he cheated on me!" (who saw that coming?)

And then they come in and dump that on your serious and completely positive intentions. Women are fucking idiots.

if I could hit the up arrow on this comment 1000x I would.

I hate the "I got cheated on so I cant trust anyone anymore" line....If you hear that then run.
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never noticed this thread before, i'll jump.

had an on-off with high school sweet heart, just over ~ 4 years. there were other people involved, both sides on multiple occasions...both during on and off periods. more on her part, mine were always reactionary. still kept getting back together, even though it was toxic as fuck. i was basically addicted to her, sad. anyway we were talking of kinda being together and stuff, and i was already having to really persuade myself after all the toxicity, then she seemed to think it was cool to go on a full daytrip with some guy from tinder. so i ended it all right there and then, all contact. blocked on fb etc. she's still friends with my sister, they went out together last week which is awkward. probably gonna see her at some point. probably gonna see her move on before i do too, which im already worrying about..wtf? i expected her to try contact me more than she has so, that was upsetting too. which i hate myself for, because i shouldn't care.

anyway it's not been as bad as i thought, or as bad as some of the other breaks but i still don't think i've fully accepted it's final now...some part of me is still like, meh it'll work out. and when it hit's me that it is done, it'll probably suck. talking to a few other girls, one canadian girl who's a little older but seems nice, yoga chick. one crazy ass girl who's like 30, she basically just wants sex but im being a bitch about it and haven't gone through yet, tbh 80% of the time i don't care about it. all from online dating of course, im still too much of a bitch to speak to girls in real life. i definitely picked some insecurity issues up following all this, again, need to stop being a bitch.

so that's my story, pretty trivial compared to most of yours and i'm incredibly priviledged that this is the only emotional burden i've ever really had. (even if it has been 4 years of (self inflicted) suck (interspersed with some incredible experience and passionate moments). ahhh, was good to write it all out.

oh, i just read mark mansons book 'models', the best thing i've ever read on relationships/dating/women. read it.

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never noticed this thread before, i'll jump.

had an on-off with high school sweet heart, just over ~ 4 years. there were other people involved, both sides on multiple occasions...both during on and off periods. more on her part, mine were always reactionary. still kept getting back together, even though it was toxic as fuck. i was basically addicted to her, sad. anyway we were talking of kinda being together and stuff, and i was already having to really persuade myself after all the toxicity, then she seemed to think it was cool to go on a full daytrip with some guy from tinder. so i ended it all right there and then, all contact. blocked on fb etc. she's still friends with my sister, they went out together last week which is awkward. probably gonna see her at some point. probably gonna see her move on before i do too, which im already worrying about..wtf? i expected her to try contact me more than she has so, that was upsetting too. which i hate myself for, because i shouldn't care.

anyway it's not been as bad as i thought, or as bad as some of the other breaks but i still don't think i've fully accepted it's final now...some part of me is still like, meh it'll work out. and when it hit's me that it is done, it'll probably suck. talking to a few other girls, one canadian girl who's a little older but seems nice, yoga chick. one crazy ass girl who's like 30, she basically just wants sex but im being a bitch about it and haven't gone through yet, tbh 80% of the time i don't care about it. all from online dating of course, im still too much of a bitch to speak to girls in real life. i definitely picked some insecurity issues up following all this, again, need to stop being a bitch.

so that's my story, pretty trivial compared to most of yours and i'm incredibly priviledged that this is the only emotional burden i've ever really had. (even if it has been 4 years of (self inflicted) suck (interspersed with some incredible experience and passionate moments). ahhh, was good to write it all out.

oh, i just read mark mansons book 'models', the best thing i've ever read on relationships/dating/women. read it.

When talking to one of them just keep the conversation about them, it will show that you're interested even if you aren't and girls love to talk about themselves so you can sit back and pretty much just listen to them yap away.  I personally would go for the 30 something year old that just wants sex and bang it out until you get used to being around other chikas and then go for the other ones that you like.  It may sound bad but if she just wants to get boned then throw her one.
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Tuesday
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Wednesday
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Thursday
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Friday
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Saturday
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I have no women so i'm learning 8 hours per day for exams and masturbating three-four times in between those hours to keep myself from entering deep depression

Great post, set yourself free.

I'm laughing so hard at this that people are looking at me funny
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oh and THIS:

http://markmanson.net/worst-moments-of-your-life

cracked me up a few times and helps put things in perspective. in fact just the read made me feel good about my life.

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When talking to one of them just keep the conversation about them, it will show that you're interested even if you aren't and girls love to talk about themselves so you can sit back and pretty much just listen to them yap away.  I personally would go for the 30 something year old that just wants sex and bang it out until you get used to being around other chikas and then go for the other ones that you like.  It may sound bad but if she just wants to get boned then throw her one.

hm i dunno, i think she's fucking crazy. and there's the whole thing about never put your dick in crazy. i may meet her for coffee and see how crazy she is.

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When talking to one of them just keep the conversation about them, it will show that you're interested even if you aren't and girls love to talk about themselves so you can sit back and pretty much just listen to them yap away.  I personally would go for the 30 something year old that just wants sex and bang it out until you get used to being around other chikas and then go for the other ones that you like.  It may sound bad but if she just wants to get boned then throw her one.

hm i dunno, i think she's fucking crazy. and there's the whole thing about never put your dick in crazy. i may meet her for coffee and see how crazy she is.

Crazies are the way to go, the hispanic girl I was with was crazy it lead to her being crazy in bed.
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Saturday
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When talking to one of them just keep the conversation about them, it will show that you're interested even if you aren't and girls love to talk about themselves so you can sit back and pretty much just listen to them yap away.  I personally would go for the 30 something year old that just wants sex and bang it out until you get used to being around other chikas and then go for the other ones that you like.  It may sound bad but if she just wants to get boned then throw her one.

hm i dunno, i think she's fucking crazy. and there's the whole thing about never put your dick in crazy. i may meet her for coffee and see how crazy she is.

Crazies are the way to go, the hispanic girl I was with was crazy it lead to her being crazy in bed.

this girl is thai/spanish/italian, 9 years older than me, she already told me she loves anal and sent lots of interesting pictures so, i'm gonna assume she's crazy that way. i'm definitely just being a little girl about it. the majority of the time im just too busy moping over my ex to care, fucked up.

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When talking to one of them just keep the conversation about them, it will show that you're interested even if you aren't and girls love to talk about themselves so you can sit back and pretty much just listen to them yap away.  I personally would go for the 30 something year old that just wants sex and bang it out until you get used to being around other chikas and then go for the other ones that you like.  It may sound bad but if she just wants to get boned then throw her one.

hm i dunno, i think she's fucking crazy. and there's the whole thing about never put your dick in crazy. i may meet her for coffee and see how crazy she is.

Crazies are the way to go, the hispanic girl I was with was crazy it lead to her being crazy in bed.

this girl is thai/spanish/italian, 9 years older than me, she already told me she loves anal and sent lots of interesting pictures so, i'm gonna assume she's crazy that way. i'm definitely just being a little girl about it. the majority of the time im just too busy moping over my ex to care, fucked up.
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Monday
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Tuesday
1 mile run, xfit
Wednesday
1 mile run, bodyweight day
Thursday
.5 mile run, db/machines
Friday
1 mile run, xfit
Saturday
1 mile run, bodyweight day.